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Are you looking for a Mistress, your own personal Domme who will give you the exact treatment you deserve? Are you more importantly looking for a relationship with a dominating girl? Namely, treat you like a pathetic dog with just the right amount of discipline, punishment and humiliation? And maybe, if you are good, reward you kindly for being such a good submissive boy. If you are like I was, you’ve probably been looking for Mistress for quite some time. And I don’t mean just any pretending Mistress, but a true dominating girl who feels as good as you to train you like her pet dog and knows exactly how to do it.
So, where the hell do you find such a dominating girl?
If you are like I was, then you probably have tried everything to find a Mistress who is just right for you. Before I met my perfect Superior Femdom Mistress, I had found everything except a true dominatrix. I will tell you where to find a Dominatrix of your dreams, but first I must explain where NOT to find a Mistress, or else you’ll make the same mistakes as I did!
Here is how NOT to find a Mistress:
1. Asking Girlfriends.
First, I had tried talking to my then girlfriends about it. Most of them told me to go to an analyst. They thought I’d been abused as a kid and didn’t understand the real dynamics of BDSM. We usually broke up pretty quickly after that, bad sex being just one of the reasons.
2. Asking random girls
After the failure with the girlfriends, I’d tried approaching girls who “looked the part.” Yeah, they may have looked really sexy with their knee-high leather boots but these chicks were more into dark music than dominance and submission. I got a lot more of the “you’re a weirdo” comments. This may have been humiliating, but not the kind of humiliation I needed!
3. Hiring Escorts
This seemed like a pretty good bet to find a dominatrix. But I couldn’t have been more wrong. These chicks don’t know the first thing about BDSM. A lot of them were really timid about delivering punishment and it was more like I was teaching them the rules, not the other way around. Talk about a buzz kill! I won’t even get into how terribly the flogging went at the hands of paid escorts. There is an art to finding a man’s threshold and delivering pain. These chicks were in it just for the money and had no actual desire to dominate me. Because I was the one with the money, I was always in the dominant position.
My desperation started growing after all these failed attempts. I knew that there must be femdom Mistresses out there who were in need of slaves- meaning men like me. I even started to fuck up at work in hopes that my female boss would chew me out. Ok, I know that is a bad idea now. But where else do you find women in superior positions? Since submissives like myself had stopped broadcasting their sexual needs openly, the superior Dominatrices had probably done the same. I wasn’t going to find a Mistress who’d be walking the streets in sexy leather and carrying a whip!
The internet seems like a pretty obvious solution now, but I hadn’t used the internet for more than email, sports, porn and Wikipedia before. I tried online dating a long time ago, but the women there were into relationships or casual sex, not BDSM or even role playing. I was in the midst of a femdom video search when I came across an advertisement for this site. It seemed a bit too good to be true: an online dating site for BDSM.
The BDSM dating site was free for searching. I really couldn’t believe how many dominant chicks were also searching for slaves- especially with hot gorgeously superior some of these Mistresses are, it was incomprehensible that men weren’t lining up to lick their boots. The site requires that you pay in order to contact the Mistresses. At this point, I would have paid a hundred times more than what they were asking! Especially because the Mistresses seemed genuine lifestyle Dominatrices, not escorts or even webcam flirts.
I contacted quite a few of the dominant women and a lot of them replied back to me. There was one Mistress who sounded perfect and perfect for me. We finally met up and our first session was outstanding. Finally a REAL DOMINATRIX who knows exactly what I need! I became her slave instantly and she my Owner, my Mistress. She knows just how to take care of me, even though I am so far beneath her. I am lucky to have the attention of a woman of her caliber!
So, I now that I have found my perfect Mistress, I am passing the information on to you. I don’t mean to sound like an advertisement, but the more people who sign up for the site, the better it will become. I realized this a while ago (with the help of my Mistress, lol). Before, I was reluctant to share the info on the BDSM dating site because I was worried that other submissive guys would be competition for the Dominatrices. There are enough Mistresses out there for all of us! Plus, my femdom Mistress told me how important it was for slave trading in order to teach dogs like me new tricks. I must listen to my Dom and, here I am, telling you all to go find a Mistress and get trained.
IF YOU ARE LOOKING FOR A MISTRESS, THEN JOIN THIS SITE!
I have been thinking about trying bdsm and being the submissive. It’s good to know that I’m not the only one. Maybe I will try that site.
I also use the dating site. It is pretty awesome because there are so many different dominant and submissive women. I like to explore all aspects of the fantasy and there are a lot of girls who are willing to switch roles. For all those guys who always want to be the dominant in a Master/Slave relationship, I recommend you put yourself at the mercy of a female dominatrix for severe punishment and humiliation. You can’t be truly dominant unless you have experienced the joys of being submissive. There is a lot you can learn from the diverse women on this site. I highly recommend it.
Thanks for sharing the knowledge! I’ve signed up and am in contact with a few women from my area. We are planning on meeting soon and I can’t wait. These mistresses are the real deal, like you said. Not some actresses playing around.
You didn’t mention all the other stuff that the ALT has, like chat, cams, blogs, and a magazine. It is about time that someone made a site where people into bdsm can link up. Reality definitely beats watching femdom porn movies- unless you are watching them with your mistress!
You maggots are looking for someone who can break you down into putty and then reshape you into something worthy? I am waiting to be your Mistress. If you are capable of doing anything intelligent, then come find me on ALT so I can make you my nice little pet! I think that it is just pathetic that you can’t even find a Mistress to beat you properly! If you do make it to the site, I will at least reward you by giving you my attention and most severe punishment!
I want to be a foot slave to the perfect goddess!
Thank you. I signed up for bdsm dating after reading this. I figured that it was cheaper than paying for ‘escorts.’ It turns out that it is also a lot better. These women really live the lifestyle, not just imitate what they see in movies. I am into spanking and I found a domme who has the perfect upper hand. She really enjoys taking me over her lap and making me squirm. What’s crazy is that we actually both live in the same city, but probably never would have met unless we’d signed up for the site. It’s crazy how the internet makes connections possible.
This is what I need, a woman to humiliate me!
Wow! There are a lot of women into BDSM! Almost half of them are into being dom and a lot like to switch it up.
I’ve been on the site for a while and already have my own mistress. We organized a group ‘dog walk.’ It was really fun and ended with a lot of intense orgasms. We want to do it again and are always seeking more slaves and mistresses. This is a female dom party only, so NO dominant men allowed! After you sign up and get a feel for how the site works, you can check out the group sessions and maybe meet up with us.